Dear ST
Thanks to jump in for ST
(Stock trendy) and for your informative, very personal post.
As an add on to your post and to expand it a bit in the direction of "How To Overcome the Fear of "Pulling the Trigger", I like to post an interview which I found nice to listen too. Nothing we have to be absolutely surprised about what is told, but the talk beside the short advertisements (we have to overhear when listen to such kind of interviews) make sense, is true and all the times informative.
Dr. Brett Steenbarger, Dr. Doug Hirschhorn and Dr. Gary Dayton talk about there experience they faced on the mentioned subject:
http://www.traderinterviews.com/wim...ngleFree.php?file_to_play=Pulling-the-Trigger
If any one has a problem to listen to the interview, read it here:
http://www.traderinterviews.com/free/Pulling-the-Trigger.php
I personal agree with your post. If traded with that healthy mental background, we also should not get tempted to think we are married with any position we have in the market. That shows, at least for me, that a trader is strong in his mind, can take a loss and is able to change his mind accordingly to market behavior.
Option strategy trader not necessarily need that talent as we implement a strategy which usually is not for a short time and most of the time only has to be adjusted once a day, depending what kind of strategy I choose.
Finally: We are all human beings and I would say we always will bring in some kind of emotions in our trades, of what ever reasons it will be. The trick surely is to accept that and not to let the feelings over run our mental strengthens we build up by what are nicely explained in the three points in your post. Just my two cents and circle closed
Good trading
DanPickUp