I have only begun to realize one concept, out of several others, that Mark Douglas said about traders not completely accepting risk (in a trade). Simply voluntarily punching in the order is not enough.
So, what would it mean to accept risk?
It would mean that you are totally fine with losing that money you put on the table. In fact, you wish for market to take it away, but only that much. You, in all your powers, do not wish to get out of this risk even if given the chance and would like to see the trade through.
At what stage of development as a trader, would one be ready to completely accept the risk?
When he is confident about the setup he is taking his trades by. Else, there will always be a lingering doubt. Market ticks are designed to magnify this doubt into fear. Ticks in themselves are powerless, but only when they get the seed of doubt, they will make it a tree of fear.
The pro-trader knows that with this setup the odds are in his favour. So he is more than happy to be in a trade as along as the setup holds.
Here is something surprising to new readers, when you completely accept the risk in a trade you are happy to lose that money and the level of happiness is almost same when you win. This is because, when you are attached to the detecting a setup, when that is your focus, you start to like the process of trading. You feel nice for having done the right thing.
And when you take trades in which you hadnt accepted the risk, and you lose, you feel terrible. And when you win, you are ecstatic as if somebody gave you a super-duper pleasant surprise... something which you never expected and you got.
It is said in Hindu shastras, that to have all the Gunas, good qualities, you needn't go about acquiring each of them. Instead, pursue only one particular Guna and the rest will follow: and that Guna is of "Satya": Be what you are outside as you are inside.
Similarly, I believe, if I learn to accept the risk in a trade, all the other qualities of a good trader will have no option but to assemble by themselves, I won't have to gather them.
Thanks to MD, for introducing this concept "Acceptance of Risk". With each passing day, I wish and pray to understand this concept better, as I know this is where my success lies.