dkardale , Can't stop myself from posting to yr query.. There has been lots of suggestions /opinion already posted here.. so I wouldn't like to repeat them..
But would like to expression my views here
1) when we realised that we are in a deep hole, we got to stop digging to come out from it. Isn't that true ? Then, unanimous opinion as emerged here, is to stop Gujral managing your money.
2) Plz rethink about your financial loss bearing limit and try to set some rules for yourself. Whether u manage your fund / or someone, make sure that you know when to pull the plug, when things go wrong.
It is always game of reward v/s risk.. You certainly wanted to generate X% return on your capital.. What was the risk that u were ready to take for it ? You can split that to per month/ per quarter / per year level as well.. say 10% risk in a month, 20% in a quarter, etc.
You make money in trading/investing by SELLING, not by buying. You only make paper profit by holding.. Real money comes only when u sell it. Hence EXITs are most crucial part here.
Spend time on that and Learn the basics and if possible advance part of it.
3) Seems, you are not into active trading/investing.. that is fine. You can very well give your money to others to manage. It is like outsourcing your business to someone (like giving construction to a builder, giving woodwork to decorator etc). You got to manage the show when others are doing the work. For that u need to know how to manage it.. how to verify their credentials before giving them contract, knowing when and how to tighten them and set them right, know what kind of reporting /status updates u need to monitor them..
If you don't know all these.. then believe me.. other person is going to take u for ride.. just because of your ignorance. They are in the business..and they know it very well how to market their service and
grab clients. You need to learn the skill to manage them.. and not become their victim
In this forum, majority of people are active trader. They may not have outsourced their funds to someone else to manage it (their might be mutual fund investor but that is different style then what u are looking for). So, better to also seek advise from right people.. who know how to manage fund managers.
4) And if you decide to learn trading on your own, then Plz don't start it with big capital.
5) Please stop beating yourself for this mistake. I think, u have already realised that there is something wrong. Good that u are searching for solution. So now take decision on what you are going to do next (you might be doing atleast few things).. and start taking ACTION..
Your future return will depend on those ACTION.. so focus on them..
All the best.
ps- In the past, we had similar thread from a sr. citizen who had lost major chunk of retirement fund in mkt crash. Chk it out, for some more suggestion.
http://www.traderji.com/general-trading-investing-chat/25682-looking-advice-help.html