usha said:
saint,
doctor you are 10% successful in curing my crying heart. I will read your letter again and again till it enters and settles down corectly into my head, just now I read it with my heart & a few drops fell off my eyes without my permision. You believe I could make it big.... thats a little inspiring..somewhere someone unknown is believing me and saying I will make it big one day if I follow some strategy and discipline.. then why not I re-start beliving in myself. usha give it a try!
Usha
Hi Usha,
I can understand your pain.............think many if not all of us have gone through that pain some time or other.But every fall is an opportunity in disguise.For you has come a great opportunity to learn,and understand that you are not doing that something that these profit making guys are doing...........as you pointed out somewhere you have a 92% batting avg,and you could not breakeven,which means that you are cutting your profits and letting your losses ride.Which means that your mental state is that you should win every trade..........so you tend to take your profits quickly and wait for your losses to come back to breakeven at least.
Change the mind state...........that above is verily the problem.We want every trade of ours to work............and in trading,unlike other avenues in life,that thinking is our doom.For a doctor,we want to save every dying patients.............Cutting our losses and letting our profits ride,in the medical world,is akin to:"Oh,these 10 patients are not looking that great,I am sure they are gonna conk anyway,let's pull the plug on them and save hospital resources,and our time and energy........but these 2 patients look like they are gonna make it,so why not focus on these two?" Doesn't work that way in medical life............we try to save every patient till the last breath,we give it all we've got.But that attitude spells doom in trading.
In trading,we have good entry set ups,and before the trade is set,we already have an exit strategy if we are wrong.A stop is placed either with the broker or mentally.If the trade goes against us,we are out..........the important thing is not to have a great Batting Average..........My batting average thelast year is only 58%,so what,my portfolio is up 82% from last year.How could that be?How can nearly half your trades be wrong,and you're up by so much?As many pointed out,and most recently Jaideep............the secret of trading is to Cut Your Losses and to let your Profits Ride.
So,the trades go like this.....if x is the amt lost stopped out,in 10 trades:
-x,-x,-x,+4x,+3x,-x,+3x,-x,+3x,-x.Therefore amt lost=6x. And amt gained=13x.So,you've made a net profit of 13x-6x=7x.........but what is your batting average?only 40%.Who cares........definitely not you,you are busy laughing your way to the bank.
While others concentrated their efforts to be right,you concentrated on making profits...............so the question that we should ask ourselves is:Are we here to be right,or are we here to make money?They are both not necearrily the same.
Usha,I do not know who you are or what type of a person you are.............I do know this,you can do it,and getting your startegies in place,you will succeed............I hope to hear one day that you consistently pull money out of the pockets of the big funds,with a great big smile on your face.Believe me,when that day comes,this problem would seem like no more than a minor hiccup,a necessary hurdle on your road to success.
Don't give up...........the below from last part of the very popular poem 'Don't Quit':
Success is failure turned inside out
The Silver tint of the clouds of doubt
And you can never tell how close you are
It may be near when it seems afar
So stick to the light when you're hardest hit-
It's when things seem worst that you mustn't quit.
All the best!
Saint